“There are no coincidences”

You did not end up here by accident, you are meant to be here.


I spent 12 years as a highly successful General Manager in the hotel industry ticking off one career success after another until complete burnout in 2005.  Then in 2006 I started my own business, Bailey Solutions, a Professional Concierge company.  All the expertise, tools and skills I learned from 12 years in the hotel industry perfectly set me up for success in exceeding individual and small corporate client expectations providing personal assistant solutions. I literally felt like everything I had previously done in my life had led me to that point and I was cruising right along.

Then life happened, as it always does and I separated from my partner of 23 years.  An entire lifetime was upended and new patterns needed to be created.  Unfortunately falling back on old behaviors and patterns, I found myself utterly lost of direction in my life as though my compass was broken and I could not find true north.  You see when we just put our head down and keep drilling it for tangible successes we forget about the intangible spiritual success that is our well source.

Through a year of deep spiritual soul searching, Grace Still Standing was born…literally. 

By radically shifting old beliefs I was able to break free of those old patterns and behaviors and map out a new path to fulfillment and joy and again I have that feeling of everything I have previously done in my life has led me to this point. I have found abundant love for myself and live life without expectation.

You see, life doesn’t always give us what we ‘want’ nor does it give us what we think we ‘need’.  No, the Universe lays out small road signs and it is up to us to notice them and take the correct path or continue down our well-worn and rutted path that leads to the same unfulfilled place. 

So with a proven path to true North I will help you see the road signs in your life so that you too can gain the spiritual fulfillment that you were meant to achieve in this one precious life.

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world…Today I am wise, so I am changing myself” ~ Rumi

Today I am a little bit Gabrielle Bernstein-The Universe Has Your Back, mixed with Danielle LaPorte-Desire Map and Truth Bombs, with a solid base of Mark Nepo and Thich nhat Hanh, then sprinkle a little bit of poetry from John O’Donohue and David Whyte and some others and voila!

I am a Certified Desire Map Coach and B-School graduate and I have learned how to transform my fear to live in the present with gratitude. To find what is sacred in life, to live life as an open ended question and not a destination.

Do you want to soften to the world around you through gentle inquiry and surrender allowing the world to penetrate, influence and transform?

I will help you relearn how to listen and receive the messages meant for you, to let go of finding the answer, to be a vulnerable observer, be flooded with joy and purpose. Let me help you connect with your life’s purpose, what your natural gift is that you need to share with the world.

Transform your fear into faith, the feeling of being stuck into flow and scarcity into abundance.

Unconditional love is my destiny, what’s yours?

~Deb Bailey